Category Archives: Divorce

HOW FIRM IS YOUR MARRIAGE FOUNDATION?

It never ceases to amaze me just how fickle my feelings are in my marriage! One moment I can look at my husband and think “we have such a good relationship, I can’t imagine ever fighting with him again,” and … Continue reading

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LOVE IS NOT A FEELING: MAKING A MARRIAGE LAST

It never ceases to amaze me just how fickle my feelings can be in my marriage! One moment, I can be looking at my husband and feel so in love with him, so at peace and the thought goes through … Continue reading

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HOW CAN YOU PROMISE YOUR CHILD YOU WILL NEVER GET DIVORCED?

My mother and step-father got divorced after almost 29 years of marriage. She was 79 and he was 81 years old! I had organised with the Sheriff of the Court to meet him at the retirement home where my mom … Continue reading

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FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT?

During a morning Bible Study a group of women were discussing how to have loving relationships with their husbands.  The group leader asked them ‘how many of you love your husbands?’. All the hands shot up. She then asked ‘when … Continue reading

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DIVORCE HURTS…

Parents, please don’t underestimate and minimize the damage your divorce does to your children. Recognize the fact that just as the egg and sperm joined together to form your child that egg and sperm are effectively now being torn apart, … Continue reading

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PREPARE FOR THE EMPTY NEST

A few years ago I went out for supper with some of my woman friends. There were nine of us in total – we were a mixed bunch. We came from different walks of life, different countries, different cultures and … Continue reading

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GOD’S VISION FOR YOUR MARRIAGE

God says in His Word “where there is no vision, the people perish” (Proverbs 29:18) The same can be said for marriages.  If you do not have a vision, a plan and a goal for your marriage, your marriage will perish. When … Continue reading

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LEGACIES WE LEAVE BEHIND…

Found this old photo of our family.  That is me in my father’s arms.  It reminded of a post I did on the legacies we leave behind for our children. It was a reminder that in our marriages we need to: Guard … Continue reading

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THE LOST VISION

This was posted to Facebook a while back: The human brain is amazing. It functions 24/7 from when we are born and only stops when you take a test or talk to someone attractive. The second part of this quote … Continue reading

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ROSE COLORED GLASSES

“I love and most importantly, respect my husband. Yes, there are small things that drive me mad, there always will be, and I’m sure the same could be said for him. But, and this is what some forget, they were … Continue reading

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