Depression is insidious.

It is stealthy and cunning and treacherous.

It works in a subtle way and can be deadly.  It is a thief and a murderer – it robs one of the will to live of joy and hope and in extreme cases can lead to death.

The only time that I have suffered real depression was when I was diagnosed with postpartum depression after the birth of one of our children.  It lasted for six dark, dreary months before it lifted.

Recently, however, a darkness has been closing in on me and my joy in the Lord and in life has been slowly fading. I have been repeating the following words “life is too difficult, I don’t want to do this, I can’t do this anymore”.   I think it started when I heard the news that a fifteen year old girl in our community had killed herself. I have found myself, almost on a daily basis, crying for the mother, desperately longing that I could take her pain away. My own father is dying and that has brought a lot of emotion to the surface for myself and my siblings. I am struggling with the pain and hurts of my own children – when they feel they are failures, when they are hurt by friends, when they are lonely – I take that burden on myself and carry it and gradually the burdens have been getting heavier and heavier.

My husband told me recently that my life was just like a truck.  I was constantly stopping to pick up burdens along the road, a majority of those burdens don’t even belong to me but I have picked them up and put them into my truck anyway and driven off with them!  My truck is soon going to be too heavy to drive.  On top of that I am only looking at the side of the road to see what burdens I can pick up next.  I am ignoring the amazing beautiful view of life that I have through the windscreen.

So today I took a hammer and some nails, climbed into my truck and drove to the cross.  I parked at the foot of the cross, climbed into the back of the truck,took the hammer and the nails and started hammering my burdens one by one to the cross.

The burden of sorrow, the burden of anger, the burden of disappointment, the burden of addictions, the burden of lack of faith, the burden of self-worthlessness, the burden of doubt, the burden of self-pity, the burden of grief, the burden of lack of appreciation ….. each and every burden was nailed to that cross.  It took me most of the day to unpack and nail the burdens.

And as I hammered away the darkness started to lift and I thought on these words:

“He canceled the record of the charges against us and took it away by nailing it to the cross.”  (Colossians 2:14)

“He himself bore our sins” in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; “by his wounds you have been healed.” (1 Peter 2:24)

There is no sin or feeling too big that God cannot forgive and if we are constantly feeling burdened and depressed how are we ever going to be witnesses to others of His light and love?  Once I had nailed all my burdens to the cross, I abandoned the truck and continued my journey on foot with the resurrected Lord walking beside me.  This way I won’t be able to pick up burdens that don’t belong to me and I will be in a position to help others carry their burdens:

Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the Law of Christ. (Galatians 6:2)

Miracle within me
Align soul with Your will
Let Your light shine through me
With love that You instill
 (You Instill by Daryl Madden)

I am going to start shining again!

“Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord rises upon you …the sun will no more be your light by day, nor will the brightness of the moon shine on you, for the Lord will be your everlasting light, and your God will be your glory” (Isaiah 60)

About Noelene

I am a child of God's. I am also a writer. Mother Teresa once said "I am a little pencil in the hand of a writing God who is sending a love letter to the world". My objective is to be one of God's love letters to the world. I can only achieve this through His grace at work in my life.
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  1. How great is the love of our Lord God Noelene. Depression has also knocked on my door at various times but just like you, I held on to the hope we have in Jesus. He truly is the lifter of our heads and I love that He is faithful to us, His children!

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    • Noelene says:

      It was such a cleansing act being able to figuratively just hand God all my ‘burdens’ and to acknowledge that the Joy of the Lord is my strength. Thank you for commenting my precious friend.


  2. Michelle says:

    Pleasure x

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  3. Mon Ange says:

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️ find things you are grateful for and find things that bring joy. Eg. Watch comedy, good praise worship music or go for a walk in garden or beach…

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  4. Susan Winter says:

    Thanks for this start to my day Noel. It is all too easy so often to feel that we are walking a particular road alone but to know others go through the same things is encouraging. In these times God can sometimes be too intangible and the sharing of generous people like you provides such encouragement. I trust God’s healing hand will reach out to you today especially and that your pain will be less – even for a day.

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    • Noelene says:

      The response to this blog has been overwhelming Susan via messages and emails. The majority have said “I too, have felt/am feeling exactly the same”. God uses all things in our lives and through this time of depression His love has been made manifest in such a beautiful way in my life. I have grown and moved into a deeper understanding of who He is. It is great! Thank you for reading and commenting. As always, it means so much to me .

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